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July 2008, "What the Hell Happened?!!" entered Brooklyn's Central Library System through Grand Army Plaza.
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July 2008, Harlem's prestigious Amsterdam News Paper will feature an article about the author.
Inside this site, you will find out what happened to Andrew. On this website you
will find information about Andrew Benjamin's upcoming book, "What the Hell Happened?".
BAM! 180! Blinded-sided from left field. The person who's been telling you for months or years that he or she loves you is now saying just the opposite: they no longer love you -- or even never loved you. They leave you abruptly, without apparent cause or reason, and no real explanation – just a vague answer with a Dear John Letter.
They don't even have enough respect or courage to confront you face-to-face. They cut off all contact. They just "disappear", leaving you in shock. Most of the time we will not get an answer, and only "they" (whoever left us stranded with a thousand questions) know the real deal. Maybe they mean what they say, even if it doesn't seem like the whole truth to us. The tragic event leaves you with the #1 question of all time: "WHAT THE HELL HAPPENED!!!"
When this occurs, and the person we were sleeping with won't respond to our questions, then human nature compels us to seek an answer by any means necessary, whether it's a professional dating site, a psychologist or our friends.
The problem with talking to our friends is that they'll only give us an opinion meant to comfort. They'll say, the person who left "wasn't good enough for you. Let it go and move on." This answer is UNACCEPTABLE because it doesn't answer the main question.
In desperation for an answer, we would even approach strangers. At least, their opinions would most likely be truthful and unbiased.
Well, you no longer have to embarrass yourself in doing this. I've done it for you.
I have approached 1,000 women on the internet with my questions, exchanged more than 5,000 notes, and created a book that contains 500 opinion answers to the question, "What the Hell Happened?"
You'll find searching opinions and speculations based on people's life experiences and viewpoints as to why the individual I was dating left in such a cold manner. I have highlighted four key points pertaining to me: explanations as to what happened, how to handle the situation, red flags as to why I should have seen it coming, and proverbs to live by when meeting and dating someone.
If you've ever been in this situation and still ponder why he or she left you, or if you're dating and entering a new relationship, then you owe-it-to-yourself to read this book. Learn the possibilities of what can happen when dating. Learn how to avoid initial hurt by being vulnerable and gullible.
Find out what happened to me. Read excerpts from my upcoming book, "What the Hell Happened…?" And learn how to make sure it doesn't happen to you!
